@blue_dolphin - thank you so much! I still am a bit of a mess dealing with the loss of my mom and especially how unhappy her last couple of years were – mostly due to dementia. But, thanks to friends and family, this service was not nearly as hard as I thought it was going to be. I got so much love and support from everyone. I had friends from HS (I’m 62) show up. Folks at church arranged flowers, blew the leaves off the sidewalks and driveway to make it look nice, and cooked. And Jessica’s singing and eulogy truly blew me away. I was awash, but in a good way. Someone else at church recorded the service and put it on FB so I can watch the whole thing any time I like and share it with friends and family who couldn’t come.