IMHO- 1) I never use a Shaoxing if the bottle says "cooking wine". 2) My current favorite is a Shaoxing called "zhuang yuan hong" and also contains the words, "shao hsing hua tiao rice wine". 3) I will use any Shaoxing that does not violate my rule #1. 4) I will use Vermouth if, and only if, Shaoxing is unavailable. 5) I never use sake or sherry. 6) I always make my own garam-masala.