Gifts on Father's Day are not generally expected. It is kind of a bogus holiday in the US. Most of us just get a hug and a "happy father's Day". Maybe a card. Really? I'd say that varies greatly from family to family. It's always been a really big deal in our family. The various dads always begin the day with breakfast in bed (the quality of which depends upon the age of the "cooks" and is often laughable, but daddy has to choke it down anyway and brag about how wonderful it is), and then some kind of special dinner, complete with cards and gifts. This year I'm giving my dad (who's 91 and in a senior center) some very nice tuned windchimes to hang out on his small patio. As far as wine goes, he loves port, so I always include a really good bottle of that, a luxury he loves but wouldn't buy for himself. I never thought of FD as a "southern thing", but it sure ain't much up here. Is your approach common where you live?