This is what I was taught, right or wrong. Shad, a very bony member of the herring family, is only worthy if taken from the Connecticut River. Have the local fisherman, who caught it, bone it. You'll never learn how to do it. Barring being able to "plank" it at an open fire on the banks of the river, get home as fast as possible with your filets and roe sacks. The filets are broiled, flesh side up, with pats of butter. The roe pairs are gently sauted in bacon fat in a cast iron skillet. Serve the filets and roe sacks, garnished with crisp bacon slices, lemon wedges and fresh parsley. Accompany with boiled, parsley potatoes and asparagus.