I don't think Im a sexist , and Im sure Im out of date on several items :
SocialMedia ( a disease ) etc
if a club is private , members dictate policy.
if a member ( either gender ) wanted to treat guests
any gender
w a menu that had no prices , I dont see any problem at all.
to the member , who is paying I suppose , it might suggest
to the guests , ' Please help your self '
now , the Wine List :
far more problematic.
the member is the only one that gets it
but then discusses w the guests their preferences
and then matches the wines w the meal.
I have no problem w that at all.
note : gender neutral .
of course , the member would have the option
of standard menus for all.
it would be noted on the members ' preference list '
and thus be automatic.