beans, where i come from, bartenders are even more easy to *love*. i've made some good friends over the years, many of whom are still my friends, even after their bartending days. just as restaurants are easy to hate, and people are easy to hate, i'm more interested in those that matter. and when they matter, well, they tend to change your life, or at least have a positive impact. i can't imagine how much i'd have to pay a psychologist for the work my buds have done.