OK, someone has to admit it...I am fairly fastidious and never order anything messy in a restaurant. I hate getting my hands (and yes, my nails) dirty. That's not to say I would order a "just a salad" - it's the mess factor. I can't do it. Is that girly, or just OCD? ← eh, we all behave differently in publice, weather or not we readily admit it. I may overorder and overtip just to prove another point...I'm sure there's sume nerosis and insecurity involved but...whatevs...not my biggest flaw..so..I'm overlooking it! nonetheless there is a HUGE population of women who undereat in public, as a matter of fact it's practically standard amongst the young crowd these days (not just my idiot friends) Perhaps I'm just not aware of normal ordering patters and I see all these women as starved and repressed...and to them I'm a big hippo with no self control!