I feel your pain. I was making dessert ( it was a maccaroon inspired "cake" that I was still working out the details on) when I got a phone call from my Mom. My sister in law found this recipe for some dessert, and she really wants to make it, says my Mom. Would that be ok? My head said no, damn it, it's not ok, I've been working on this for a week now, but my mouth said "sure no problem. " So now I'm making, um, nothing. I love the holidays, it's my relatives that I can't stand. So, I just found out my Mom has been lurking around the site. Mom, I still love you, and I know it's not your fault. You didn't marry her. OK?