OK, I'm going to jump in first. Personally, I HATE HATE HATE this crap about woman or man looking at the wine list. Both sexes ask me questions every night. Some of them are stupid questions, others are more informed. They cannot be allocated to sexes. Yes, there are as many stupid guys out there as........ welll, you get the drift. I don't consider myself a snob, but I do have several conceits. I'm in a French restaurant, so I don't have a pinot grigio. This gets asked for every night.