I'd bring wine, cheese, pecans, and dessert as well. Don't forget the napkins!
Overthinking? Do you think?!
Never is a bottle of wine an incorrect gift, in my opinion. Unless you're going to a bris.
We are often invited to friends' homes for fancy dinners. I know that they're opening very good wines to pour with dinner. If they stick the wine I bring into their wine fridge, I'm not insulted, and nor do they feel bad.