Branching off of the Random Acts of Kindness in restaurants thread, what are your opinions on expectations for comps and other freebees in restaurants? Are there times where you can ever expect them? Proper etiquette when offered one? Or is my thinking about them just showing my greediness? For instance, when calling for reservations at a nice restaurant, the host often asks if you will be celebrating anything that evening. If you are (birthday, anniversary, etc.) and you tell the reservation taker, should you expect any follow up on that at your dinner? I've received a free dessert, drink, greeting card, but also sometimes nothing from the restaurant. If they ask, should they then recognize the celebration in some way? If they don't ask, when should you point it out to them and then what do you expect them to do for you? Thanks for your thoughts! dahlsk