I often like pinot grigio and sometimes don't, which is more or less in line with what you wrote above; it's just that I wouldn't think of having an Italian wine with a French meal. Perhaps that shows ignorance on my part, but nevermind, we can discuss this tangent elsethread. My opinion about this wine list thing? Bring two to a couple. Give one to the woman and one to the man (if it's a heterosexual couple, of course). Simple, no? If you don't have enough wine lists, get more copied! There's no excuse for the bullshit the article exposes. If I were out with a woman friend and I was ostentatiously presented with the wine list while none was given to my dining partner, I might lower my tip. I consider it just plain rude and disrespectful.