we sit around and scream at each other and debate meaningless topics just to get each other going. antipasto, consisting of various meats and cheeses, is a staple, and usually fills ever guest long before any sort of dinner (usually italian-american fare) hits the table. this is all on christmas day. christmas eve isn't a big deal where i'm from, although i'm trying to work in a new tradition of drinking and eating there as well. no yelling though. gotta save that for christmas day proper. i've inherited, from my in-laws, a tradition of using these british "poppers" or somesuch before dinner. i don't know what they are, but they have a little toy inside, and a paper hat, which is meant to be worn throughout dinner. i'm usually the only one who does that, though.