And MatthewB has a complete fit when I call my vodka martini a martini And yet I persist. In the two years I've been involved with this site, it's evolved a great deal. I remember when I began here, feeling excluded, and I posted about it. It seemed like an exclusive club at the time. So I can hear and understand fist when he says it's happened to him - perhaps without meaning to. I will never be a gourmande. I hate foi gras and fish. I'm happier with a good piece of beef myself. Yes, I eat out a lot. The nature of our businesses ensure that we do. And I am fortunate to be able to afford to and to afford good materials. That sure doesn't make me any better than anyone else, because I remember a time when I lived out of my car! However, I've got a son who lives on Kraft dinner, Lunchables, and grilled cheese sandwiches with processed cheese slices. My guy is a meat and potatoes kind of guy. He won't eat what he calls "ginchy" food. You'll never find him at Trotters for example. I love to cook. And I learned so much here, and made many cyber friends as well. So Fist, I hope and believe that the "slurs" you may have received in the past have been from a very select few - forgive them, for they know not what they do