first time i ever ate sushi/sashimi was in a korean place. it was intense. i had a korean friend in college, who's fairly well known in rock n roll/publishing circles these days, from a really wealthy family. so one night he took several of us out. we went into a place with an unmarked door in the 30's, and we were seated in a fairly dark room around a table with a mountain of ice on it. bottles of vodka were in the ice, and it flowed very freely. the staff was incredibly deferential, and i didn't realize at the time what a hooha family this guy was from. then the fish started coming out - tons and tons of it, sashimi of all kinds, a few pieces on a large leaf, and the leaf set on the mountain of ice. it was so exotic at the time - i suppose i was 19. it was one of the most memorable meals i've ever had. and i remember that no paper or money or anything exchanged hands. turns out that the family had a house account there - it was a private club of some kind. we must have been there for 5 hours. i remember thinking that it was the most sensual eating experience i had ever had, and i knew that it was an eating life-defining moment. i've never had sashimi like it since.