My name is Lily and I drink teabag coffee (decaf) AND I'm a recipe hoarder. One time I told someone that a pumpkin roll recipe they asked for was a family secret and I couldn't give it out. Reason? It was a guy I was interested in and wanted to make sure he couldn't make it himself therefore requiring him to need me for something at least. Perfectly reasonable, I'd say. If you're mentally impaired. ;) Another time I made a sun dried tomato dip which I took to a Thanksgiving dinner. When the hostess asked me for the recipe I gave it to her, leaving out the one ingredient that made it superior. It was very good without it, mind you, but not superior. Why'd I do it? Well, I had spent a whole day experimenting with the recipe till I got it just right. I don't want my recipe showing up all over the place unless I'm with it. Actually, I think the second example is more likely in general. Middle class people in certain parts of America go to alot of pot lucks, etc. We want to bring something special, and something that everyone raves about. If we give the recipe, the next pot luck we show up to will have 6 dishes exactly like it. Then we have to come up with a new raveable dish. Well, I had lots more to say but I'm late for my therapy appointment. p.s. I'm still single. Any of you nice middle aged men out there like pumpkin roll? (Edited by Lily at 4:43 pm on Jan. 27, 2002)