Tom's "your weekends screwed" encounter cracked me up, that is priceless. We shop pretty much twice monthly so we always have a pretty good size haul. We shop so many different stores because only that store carries such and such we don't get a lot of flack. I do have to admit to being one who looks at other peoples carts and if I see someting interesting I ask about it. I don't ever remember anyone being offended or crappy about it. We have met many nice people that way. The nicest comment I have had made in a checkout was that they wish they lived at our house as our cart was zero junque food and they knew we had to cook really great meals to not have any. Of course I have no shame in general, I will ask people about almost anything. One house in particular that we drive by regularly looks lopsided, I mean seriously listing to port. New house that is less than ten years old. It drove me crazy and people talked bout this house being off kilter so I knew it wasn't just me. I drove past it for months and finally couldn't take it any longer. The girls had friends with us and the kids were raving about the crooked house and that my friends was the straw that broke the camels back. I whizzed right into their driveway, parked, walked up to the door and knocked. When the owner opened the door I explained that I knew she would think I was totally nuts but I couldn't take not knowing any longer and asked her is your house really that off kilter. Her eyes got huge then she lost it completely, had tears running down her face. Told me I was the first person who had ever had the guts to ask them about thier house. They had heard people talk about their house when they were out and about but no one had ever asked. They gave me a tour, we drank ice tea, sat on the deck and talked herbs, found out she had gone to school with my BIL and that their architect had a warped sense of humor and designed the one end of the house to look as if the house were indeed sinking into the ground. Lovely couple of hours and my kids and their friends decided I got coolest mom of the year award. After that scoping a grocery cart is nothing! LA