I think we're discussing the difference between "art" vs. "trade", here. I think for true culinary artists, like Blumenthal, or Trotter we are going for the experience, not just the food. When you come back from one of these wonderful places, you talk about it for weeks, months and sometimes even years later, where you very rarely talk about the meal you had at the Outback Steakhouse or Denny's. Personally, that's how i see this discussion about submission. For a true artist, you are there to experience his vision of food, so you choose the road your interested in traveling down that night, and he or she guides you through it, like a Psychopomp. Where as you go to the mom/pop or chain restaurant to eat, not to experience something. Some of the best meals I've eaten were at the hands of a friend who wanted to make something new and exciting for me, I kow its not quite the same, but I let them lead me through their vision of what the food should be.