What was your family food culture when you were growing up? Standard middle class New Zealand (with fairly heavy Scottish/Irish influence) Was meal time important? Yes. We all had to be at the table at the same time every night or we would be in very big trouble. Was cooking important? Yes. Mummy is a housewife and she would start cooking as soon as the kids were at school and the chores done. What were the penalties for putting elbows on the table? No penalty - just a firm reminder. None of us put our elbows on the table. Who cooked in the family? Mummy and Daddy both (Daddy always did the Schnitzel, french fries, and mushroom sauce on a Saturday night). Any one of us kids could cook on a Sunday if we wished. Were restaurant meals common, or for special occassions? Not for anything. We never ate out. Special occasions were an opportunity for Mummy to cook something special - we usually got to pick what we wanted for our birthday dinner. Did children have a "kiddy table" when guests were over? Yes. We were expected to be as well behaved there as at the main table. When did you get that first sip of wine? When I was toddler. Wine was never forbidden though obviously quantities were very closely watched. Was there a pre-meal prayer? Always. Was there a rotating menu (e.g., meatloaf every Thursday)? Yes - roast mutton every Monday, schnitzel and french fries every saturday. How much of your family culture is being replicated in your present-day family life? Very much so. I demand that we sit at the table every night and we still follow the same rules as we had to (plus a few more I have picked up over the years).