Basically what I'm saying is that he passed judement on every one from the valet, the host and waitstaff and then writes about how they themselves maybe made a snap judgement on them because of their age. I suggest to people that if they have a problem with the service or the food , say something to them . You are after all spending alot of money to be there and thats what the staff is there to do, please the customer. Charlie Trotters is a great restaurant with a very personilized service but if you just sit there and don't say something then they can't do what they are there to do , and then after to play mind reader to guess what the customer wants and that doesn't make it a full expierence for Adam , and I thought he would have known that based on the thread he wrote about seeing the restaurant in books and reviews and on TV. But I do agree the blame lies with the both of them, the waitstaff and Adam, but I didn't see a thread from a service staff member from Trotters saying he had a problem with Adams presence at there place of employment.