Here are a few I never miss: St Clement (very friendly and knowledgable), Regusci (some of the best cab in Stag's Leap, also one of the Ghost wineries), DO NOT miss Rutherford Grove, on Hwy 29. They have some of the best Pettite Sirah in the valley!! They also have a picnic grove that is less busy than Satui. Silver Oak, either Napa Valley or Sonoma location. If you have time go over to Dry Creek in Sonoma and go to Preston Winery. Lou Preston makes some of the best bread I have ever eaten and usually has some of his olive oil for sale. Jarvis is OK, the tour is better than the wine. Martini House is one of the best restaurants in the Valley. Don't miss a stop by the CIA and say hello to all my friends. The Wine Spectator Restaurant is also great and next to the bookstore they always have some type of cooking demo. I could go on.................