Haide, As I read through all these posts I felt I just HAD to respond. Yes, Snoop and Steve are both right; being a woman in a restaurant envronment can be personally taxing at best. Especially if you're the woman and you're "IN CHARGE". Some men and even other women will go to any lengths to undermine your position and authority, even as they smile to your face. And getting to a place where you are that woman in charge has it's daunting moments. Can you "bark with the big dogs" while still retaining your "female" qualities? It's quite a juggling act. Are you aggressive enough? Man enough? It's a strange mix of excitement and tediousness, anxiety and pride, tears and laughter, failures and successes. And most of the time, the dedication goes unnoticed and unrewarded. I've always said "Good work is always rewarded with...more work". Make sure you know what it is you're getting into before you do it. When you do, don't choose a school because it simply has a big name. Go visit. Talk to students away from their instructors, and ask instructors questions that require them to let you know how they truly feel about their students. Is it a high-production "get-em-out-the-door" kind of place that has a graduation every month, where instructors can hardly get to know the students' names before they're gone? Is it a place where students have the time and opportunity to truly explore what it is they will supposedly be doing for the rest of their lives, or are they simply going through the motions? You know, it's a lot like restaurants...for every big-ticket, famous name chef, there are many hundreds of working grunts (great word, Steve) who work every bit as hard, many of whom are very talented...it's the same with smaller and less-recognized schools. And they are generally a good deal financially. All of them will teach you the same basics - that's why they call them basics. Go for a management option if you can. Anyway, it's certainly your life - but think long and hard about it. Long and hard, and then think some more. Good luck!