Though most of my experience is in the back of the house which differs slightly, I think the best way to break into the NYC rstaurant scene is to find a place that suits you and your experience level. By that I mean,don't try for the newest or hottest restaurant/bar of the year, but a place that is well respected and has a long history of turning out good employees who have moved on to other places. Once you have some respectable NY experience under your belt the transition into the job that you really want will be much easier. But then again, it never hurts to apply and there is something to be said for just going for it.