Uhm, yeah. The sad part is that you stayed after the insult (yes, it was an insult) and gave them your hard-earned money in return for being treated like a 5-year old ("No, you can't have your appetizer now. You'll get it when I decide you'll get it."). But, hopefully, you've learned from your experience. You are the Consumer and you are King which is well worth noting especially in this terrible economy. That you're eating out at all, and at a full service restaurant no less, puts you in rare company these days if the statistics are to be believed. Remember we vote with our wallets. We decide "I like what you're doing so here is my hard-earned money so that you may continue and stay in business." That idiot didn't deserve your money. ←