One of the most romantic and fun trips I ever planned involed blowing through Memphis New Year's eve. It was the only evening of the week I didn't plan, and we just picked this dive. It was great- country music and a friendly crowd. Happy Serendipity. Here's the food part- Right before the new year, the staff hurriedly passed out little bowls of ham and beans. No one seemed surprised, but my man & I raised our eyebrows at each other and politely ate them. Is this- not to sound juvenile- a thing?