Thank you all so much for your input!! I have heard of all these ways of making this sauce and last week tried the all day cooking with pork and beef and sausage,added red wine,and chicken broth during the cooking. I removed the meat after 5 hours and it looked great but had little taste(the three labs got it-they loved it !) made the meat balls as in the cook book by david ruggerio. It is very close but not quite.. The woman i babysat for was young at the time-she had gotten this recipe from her mother in law(whose name was mosso)....I just wanted to see if there was some "secret" I didn't know about . Some odd ingredient to give it that special flavor... I will keep trying to inprove it and will use any tips anyone can offer.. I am now going to tackle 'cannoli"s" (i bought some forms today)I have only tasted them once in my life . My husband LOVES italian food and has a bad sweet tooth.I am not italian , I grew up eating sauerkraut in pennsylvania then married a southerner and had to learn to cook "southern" I still don't like the way they cook and miss the hearty northern dishes......thanks for all your help... She never would give me her recipe-I even offered to babysit for free !! All i have ever made is what i have found in books.and keep thinking there is some unknown ingredient missing....and there aren't very many Italians in the deep south...