Okay, having jumped into this mid-week I should probably take a step or two back.
I live in Chicago's northern burbs with my wife and my 6 year-old son. We have access to a great variety of authentic foods because of our proximity to Chicago and its distinctively ethnic neighborhoods. Of course, being in the middle of the country also has its culinary limitations but I'm nowhere near maxing out on what this town has to offer. Between my work, my family and my generally limited free time, I don't get out to eat nearly as often as I'd like, so for me, there's always somewhere new to try. This town is a hot dog, pizza and steak town--it's true. But there is so much more here.
I also like to cook, although I am, admittedly, a hack. There are a few dishes that I do very well, and many others which carry my signature of mediocrity. But, as the primary meal preparer in my household, every so often I just get tired of cooking altogether and when my heart isn't in it, the results usually show.
I go through periods where I just want to order out every night. That would be okay except it's expensive, you end up eating like crap and out here in the 'burbs, the choices just aren't that great. Before I gave in completely and became Ronnie "Suburban" I last lived a lot closer to the city--in Evanston--and the food choices there and in the area surrounding it were fantastic. Out here in the northern reaches, you'd better be able to fend for yourself or you pay the price in variety of ways.
I do miss living right near the city (or
in it for that matter) on occasion but one day I woke up and realized that I was truly ready for some peace and quiet. Every now and then I long for the old days of jumping in the car and being somewhere 'good' in just a few minutes. But, we made our choice and we're very happy with it. What my life lacks in culinary perks is more than made up for in other areas. But, I'm not saying that there aren't good food opportunities in our immediate vicinity, only that they are more scarce than in urban areas.
Our major local grocery chains (Jewel & Dominick's/Safeway) are generally horrible. There is one smaller local chain in our area (Sunset Foods) that does a fine job, but they really charge a premium. There are all sorts of great ethnic groceries and specialty shops just a few miles south of us so we're never hurting for 'real' ingredients. Although I will admit that it's very hard to find good produce anywhere near us during the colder months. We live very near a Whole Foods store, but their produce really lacks.
What else? I work in the food industry selling fruit juice concentrates, purees and other related processed fruit products. Our company is basically a boutique where large and small grocery, ingredient and foodservice manufacturers source raw materials. We fulfill product and service requirements that large fruit processors can only dream about. Nearly everything we sell is 100% natural, 100% fruit (no blends, bases or flavors, etc.) and we also carry an organic line. I often describe us as value-added commodity resellers...are you asleep yet?

Anyway, I've learned a lot from working at my job and it's very satisfying. We solve problems for people and I love that aspect of it. And...I have access to multitudes of funky fruit products which are fun to play with. For the party this weekend I am making a punch using thai pineapple juice, chinese apple juice, mexican tangerine juice and lemon juice from the usa. At any one time we carry up to 70 or 80 products in our inventory, so there is always something great to experiment with. I've also had some great travel oppotunities because of my job. Some I've taken and some I've passed on, but I expect to be doing more traveling in the future.
Family-wise, my son is a good taster but just an okay eater. He'll give anything a shot but he doesn't love everything. Still, he's not really fussy in any way. He does have his preferences. He takes a lunch to school everyday which usually consists of a sandwich (ham or turkey) , sliced apple, some chips and a dessert (fruit roll up type thing, gummi creatures or pre-fab cookie paks). When we have leftovers, he'll willingly take them for lunch and eat them, but he'd probably prefer a Lunchable. He enjoys ribs, lox and bagels, liver, pretty much all meats too. He's also seemingly exceptional in that he loves most all green veggies including broccoli, peas, green beans, asparagus--and he loves salad too.
He's not particularly interested in helping out in the kitchen. He will from time to time, but he'd rather sit and watch tv in there while we work--and that's fine with me. We occassionally do cooking projects together, but he's far more interested in the finished product than the process.
My wife generally goes with the flow. She gives me so much help keeping us fed that I really couldn't do it without her. Not only does she do a fair amount of the shopping (under my annoying direction) but she also takes the clean-up duties upon herself most of the time. I don't particularly mind doing the clean-up--it's somewhat theraputic for me--but when someone else offers, well then

She's not a picky eater and she's
very appreciative of the effort I make. She's been learning to do a few things in the kitchen lately and she's very good at them...assorted roasts--beef, pork and chicken--and she's the master of steamed brocolli. When she makes it, it's always perfect; not too firm, not too mushy.

Anyway, I was so busy with the jambalaya tonight that I didn't really eat anything--except for 1 ramekin of the jambalaya and it was really good if I do say so myself

Here's a few pics from tonight's jambalaya prep...
from the bottom center...parsley, garlic, tasso, onion, andouille, pork, green bell pepper, baked ham (in the center)
5 gallon pot, ~80%? full)
hopefully there will be some left for the party 
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