Okay. So, now we're ready for the first field trip. My father has alzheimers, and while that's not a great thing to have, the way I look at it is that he has been such a great father and, no matter what the circumstances, we are fortunate to have him with us. Being a fulltime caretaker, however, (Mom) has it difficult. I try to stay with him as much as possible, but what gives her the most relaxation is when I take him places. Sounds easy, right! You would be sooooo wrong!

He doesn't want to go anywhere, and that is typical with his particular illness.
Okay, he doesn't want to go anywhere, and Mom wants to be in her house *alone* just for a little while... so, I started taking Daddy on field trips. Sometimes trickery is involved (but it is for a higher purpose). The first field trip we took, I asked him if he wanted some boudin. (Check!) Then, after about a half hour on the road, he asked me, "Where exactly are we going?"
In my most innocent voice ever, "Daddy, you always taught me that if we wanted Cajun food that we had to go to Cajun Country. We're going to Lafayette. Isn't that where we can get the best boudin?"
Well, he looked at me as if I had lost my mind, but he said, "Yeah. That's where we need to go."
My goal on these trips is to keep him out of the house for about 4 hours. Then, when we come home, he naps, so that's another couple of hours. Once we're out of the house, Daddy enjoys it. At first, it's tough conversation, but I keep asking him questions about the past and growing up, and he relaxes and begins to enjoy the trip.
So, here is last week's field trip! I have 3 things on the to do list:
1) Spend time with Daddy;
2) Mom wants strawberries; and
3) I want turtle meat to make you turtle soup! (Don't wince -- it's delicious!)
First up -- G&J's Drive In. We're headed east, and this place is on the way. Daddy loves shakes, and this place does a great job with thim. Just think Richie Cunningham days! If you eat here and close your eyes, you might just catch Fonzie walking by and slapping the juke box! It really is a wonderful place. You can order outside by the window or inside.
G&J's has been a staple in the community for 48 years! When we were growing up, and when Walker played Doyle in high school football, we would ride the team bus to Livingston for the game. Then, after the game, the whole school bus dropped by this place for hamburgers before we went home. It brings back wonderful memories, and the food there is good there, too!
Today, we want a shake. Daddy asked for a strawberry shake. When I ordered it, the lady behind the counter asked me if I wanted it with a strawberry sweetener or with real strawberries. You know I ordered the real strawberries, and here it is. It was soooooo good. They even have 2 size straws there -- one for drinks and the other one has a larger circumference and is for shakes because they are so thick. It was really good.
Then, while I'm waiting for the shake I start talking to the nicest woman anyone would ever want to meet. Her name is Paula. The lady beside me learns of our blog, and she says, "You should mention in your blog that Paula is the nicest person anyone could ever meet, and she is one of the reasons why people enjoy coming here."
Paula is that nice! We start a conversation, and she tells me that she has been working at G&Js since she was 14 -- she even married the owners' son. Years later, after a divorce, her former brother in law called her and asked her to come back to manage the day shift, which she did. I have to tell you -- she is great. If I owned the place, I'd ask her back, too!
She tells me that they make all of their food fresh daily -- from roasting the beef to making the gravy for roast beef po-boys, they do it all from scratch. I tell her that I remember the homemade onion rings and ask if they still make them from scratch. Yes, they do! So, you know I had to order them...
They're great! And this entire place is great! I recommend it highly if you are ever travelling the highways of our great state. And if you do drop by, please tell Miss Paula I said hello! She will take you in and treat you like family. Order the hamburger and be sure to get some onion rings with that. Put some coins in the juke box, and you never know, Fonzie just may stop by! THUMBS UP AND BIG GRIN HERE!