With two boys, you would think that Hina Matsuri would be nothing to us...not so, ever since they discovered that FOOD was involved.
They like hina arare (sugar coated puffed rice and beans, in pinks, yellows, white, and green)
http://www.big.or.jp.../hinaarar.shtml
and any leftovers go on their breakfast yogurt!
Somehow strawberries have become traditional Hina Matsuri food, and the supermarket today was doing a roaring trade in sponge rolls and cream-filled cakes of all kinds, ready for girls' parties tomorrow.
My husband says that in his day, both boys and girls were invited to parties at girls' houses, but these days that parties seem to be for girls only. (Considering the fragility of the doll sets, I can only rejoice!).
We always have chirashi-sushi (salad style sushi) and a clear clam soup on Hina Matsuri. Our dolls consist of a simple set that I painted myself. We have Boys' Day things, but the boys' grandfather is not the doting kind, so our items are mostly home-made.